Welcome all, to my
multi-part extravaganza about that dreaded thing called 'Motivation'. We've all
heard and said it so many times. Say it
with me right now: "Mo-tiv-ay-shun".
Sort of an abstract concept, isn't it?
Motivation is what makes us
go, and often we either have it or we
don't. There isn't really a middle
ground. You never hear people saying,
"Oh, I'm only partly motivated today." That's sort of like saying, "Oh, I'm
only partly alive today, but don't worry about me, I'll be fine." Yeah, sure.
And I'll only partly breathe
today, but don't worry, I'll be fine.
Often, writers talk about
motivation like it's something physical, something you can hold and touch and
keep in a little cage by your computer.
Wrong. Motivation doesn't come
from any external sources; it isn't air, and it sure as hell isn't
cheesecake.
Here are some excuses that
I commonly hear from writers claiming that their motivation has been lost in the
winds of time or some other excuse. Actually, these pretty much double for excuses of why people don't write.
1. "I'm just not
motivated."
What does this even
mean? This spells defeat. If you're not motivated to create a story, to
polish and shine that manuscript, to torture your characters until they're
screaming UNCLE! back through the computer screen, then what drives you to
create? How strong is your desire? If the will is strong enough, the motivation
will come on its own.
2. "I have homework/babies/lives
to save, and I'm too busy."
While all of that may be
true, it's still an excuse. Sure, you're
busy. I'm busy. We're all busy with this grand thing that
most of us call life, or unlife if you're undead. Take that motivation and store it away for
the next day. Jot down your ideas in a
book, the notepad on your phone, a freaking napkin at a greasy diner, I DON'T
CARE. Just make sure that you cage that
desire for tomorrow.
3. "I need inspiration
before I can get motivated."
Ah ha, the famous 'muse'
argument. This is a particular breed of
artist that pops up every now and then and gives the rest of us a bad
name. Inspiration surrounds us. Everything is a miracle, and if you're waiting
for the angels to come from their heavenly home to give you that motivation, you'll be waiting forever.
4. "After I catch up
on all of my shows, then I'll be free to get motivated."
This is not lack of
motivation. This is lack of will.
But it still applies. Don't use
your entertainment as an excuse not to write.
Use it as a reward for when your motivation takes hold of your story and
makes it change.
5. "The story is
really dragging and I don't like it anymore."
Another common excuse for
lack of motivation. It may be true. Maybe your novel is falling apart beneath
your fingertips, the characters are flat, the world is gray with a touch of
gray, and the plot is a tangled string that a kitten has lost down the gutter
of your mind. Whatever the case may be, that
mess isn't going to fix itself. Either
you gear up and beat some sense into that story, or you quit writing. Personally, I don't really see how that's
even a choice.
We all have excuses. Many of us have real, valid ones. That's fine.
No one is going to tell you to sit your ass down at that computer and
write after your sharks have escaped from the tank in your basement, grown
legs, and suddenly started eating people.
It's when we don't have a
valid excuse that things get messy. No more excuses! Tomorrow,
we'll talk about finding
motivation. Since it is this great beast
which no one can catch, surely there must be a way to find it?
I am guilty of numbers 1,
2, 4, and 5 as well as the unlisted 6-13.
What are your excuses? What stops
you from sitting down and creating?
I could claim 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 as well, but the truth is that I'm just not hard enough on myself! I'm in class, what? 15 hours of the week total? I have no job and no other commitments to speak of, but when I get home I have the choice of gaming or writing. Too often I choose gaming, and, once it starts, it takes a lot to make it stop.
ReplyDeleteI think the question of discipline can sum it up for everyone. It's all a matter of making the conscious decision to spend your free time, however much or little it may be, grinding words onto a page, even if you don't like them and even if they don't seem to be going anywhere. No one said it was going to be easy!
I have a dear friend, who is a far superior writer to me, but she consistently stops herself from writing with the 'I'm just not ready yet" excuse. She is so busy waiting for her story to percolate that she never writes any of it down. Drives me crazy, because doing NaNo, I learned that 1) we are never 'ready' and 2) you don't have to be ready to FINISH the thing in order to START it. Just WRITE. and then KEEP writing and the rest takes care of itself!
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